Being a housewife is a full time job, everyone needs your help and everyone wants something to be done quickly. And the house itself is an endless job. I'm totally and fully satisfied with my job and I wish I can do it the best it can be, but the problem is when people starts asking me, why do you downgrade yourself to be just a housewife and to not fulfill your dreams? Who the heck told you that I'm not satisfied or that I'm not fulfilling my dreams???? Do I have to work from 9 to 5 to be a modern woman? And they became so stupefied when they hear that I left a good job to stay at home, also that I was the first of my class and a very smart student, thank God. Why should only stupid unwilling to learn women stay at home? That's my decision and I take full responsibility of it.
And who said I'm not fulfilling my dreams? People who know me they know that all my life I was dreaming of becoming a mom, and that I wish to take care of my children and my family by myself, if this is my dream and I'm happy realizing it, why should people lower my dream and always try to make it appears like I'm crazy and will regret it someday?! They ask me why don't I get a maid to cook for us and get more time? Why do I bother myself in cooking? I love cooking!!! I find it very relaxing :) they're telling me why don't you send the babies to a nursery now ? Because I like taking care Of my children!!!! Why do you do such an effort going to kids training? They won't be Olympic athletes After all? Who knows maybe they will? And even though, I like to make that effort! I'm not asking anyone to do my work or to help me in it, but I'm asking for support and positive words. That's all.
This is my life and that's how I like to live it. It's different than what other people would think life should be for a 21st century woman. But that's how I believe my life should be. I like to fulfill it through my children.
If that's their dream to work and have a successful work life so I wish them the best. And I hope that people wish me happiness and success along with strength.Monday, July 16, 2012
A housewife! That's my job...
Being a housewife is a full time job, everyone needs your help and everyone wants something to be done quickly. And the house itself is an endless job. I'm totally and fully satisfied with my job and I wish I can do it the best it can be, but the problem is when people starts asking me, why do you downgrade yourself to be just a housewife and to not fulfill your dreams? Who the heck told you that I'm not satisfied or that I'm not fulfilling my dreams???? Do I have to work from 9 to 5 to be a modern woman? And they became so stupefied when they hear that I left a good job to stay at home, also that I was the first of my class and a very smart student, thank God. Why should only stupid unwilling to learn women stay at home? That's my decision and I take full responsibility of it.
And who said I'm not fulfilling my dreams? People who know me they know that all my life I was dreaming of becoming a mom, and that I wish to take care of my children and my family by myself, if this is my dream and I'm happy realizing it, why should people lower my dream and always try to make it appears like I'm crazy and will regret it someday?! They ask me why don't I get a maid to cook for us and get more time? Why do I bother myself in cooking? I love cooking!!! I find it very relaxing :) they're telling me why don't you send the babies to a nursery now ? Because I like taking care Of my children!!!! Why do you do such an effort going to kids training? They won't be Olympic athletes After all? Who knows maybe they will? And even though, I like to make that effort! I'm not asking anyone to do my work or to help me in it, but I'm asking for support and positive words. That's all.
This is my life and that's how I like to live it. It's different than what other people would think life should be for a 21st century woman. But that's how I believe my life should be. I like to fulfill it through my children.
If that's their dream to work and have a successful work life so I wish them the best. And I hope that people wish me happiness and success along with strength.
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ربنا يقويكى يا سالى انا بحبك اوى وبحترم شخصيتك جدا وطريقة معالجتك للامور ونظرتك للحياة عامة ..وبحب فيكى تمسكك بزمن فات فيه كل الاصالة من غير ماتكونى رجعية واقفة عند زمن عدى بتابعى برده اخر لتطورات بس عاجبنى انك مش متمسكة بالقشور وبتاخدى من التطور ده الى يفيدك بس..فرق كبير بين ن لى عاوز ومش قادر وبين لى قادر ومش عاوز .وانتى قدرة تيبى كل الى بتعمليه ده لحد غيرك يعمله وتعملى انتى حاجة خاصة بيكى جدا بس مش عاوزة ده ومن هنا جه احترامى لرغبتك دى اوى.دايما بتلهمينى كدة
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