Love

Love has a different definition in men's dictionary than in women's dictionary, it's so obvious. I love my husband so much, and I know that he loves me too. But like all wives I always tell him that I need him to show me his love, I need him to call me "huny" "my love" "sweetheart" " sugar"....etc not "Mama"!!! I have already 4 persons calling me by this name, I need him to buy me flowers, even a single red rose. When I cook his favorite meal I need him to tell me " Thank you Dear for your effort" not " Ohhh! I ate so much I need a glass of sprite!" When he's talking on the phone, even if he was talking to his best friend who knows me sooo well, he never says my name, he always refers to me as " the wife" " the mother"...etc I want him to say my name. He even saved my name on his contact list as " the house "!!!!!! When I confronted him why? Are you ashamed of me or my name? He told me no , I'm giving you a Prestige!!!!!!! I tried to understand he's point of view, but I wasn't convinced and I couldn't change he's way of thinking too. So I let it go it's a lost battle! He's thinking that by working hard and getting money to sustain a good quality of life for me and the kids, that's how much he loves me and that's the way he shows his love to me. For me I need more loving words, I want him to hold my hand while walking, to put his arm around me while watching the TV, kissing my hand after finishing his meal and saying thank you dear. Those are not costly demands, but for me, will show me how much he loves me. Women's demands are so silly in a man point of view. But believe me if your wife really loves you, she doesn't care if your gift is a diamond ring or a single red rose, she doesn't want you to write a poem showing your love to the whole world, but a simple "I love you" and a big hug will mean the world for her.